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The ‘alpha male’ myth, debunked | Frans de Waal

Sep 10, 2025
Frans de Waal, a renowned behavioral biologist and primatologist, dives deep into the myth of the 'alpha male.' He reveals that being an alpha isn't just about aggression; true leaders are often empathetic and protective. De Waal challenges stereotypes, emphasizing that social hierarchies in both animals and humans are shaped by more than just strength. He also discusses the fluidity of gender roles in primate behavior, suggesting that our emotional and social similarities with them might hint at the roots of morality.
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INSIGHT

Alpha Male As Protector Not Bully

  • Frans de Waal says alpha males are usually admired and protective rather than just bullies.
  • He emphasizes empathy and breaking up fights as central alpha behaviors.
ANECDOTE

How 'Alpha Male' Entered Pop Culture

  • Frans de Waal recounts how his book Chimpanzee Politics popularized 'alpha male' in the 1980s and was picked up by politicians and business writers.
  • He expresses conflict about the term being used to promote bullying leadership styles.
INSIGHT

Dominance Depends On Politics

  • Frans de Waal highlights that primate societies are political and physical power is only part of dominance.
  • He notes that supporters and female alliances can determine who becomes alpha.
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