VOX Mini - Navigating Theological Tension in Church Leadership: Can Complementarians and Egalitarians Co-Pastor?

Can a complementarian and an egalitarian co-lead a church without compromising their convictions or church polity? That’s the central question driving this special mini-episode of Voxology. Mike, Tim, and Bonnie revisit a recent conversation sparked by their dialogue with Allan Frow, unpacking listener questions about unity in leadership, theological diversity, and the positive biblical basis for women in ministry.

With real-life scenarios, pastoral insight, and honest evaluation of both complementarian and egalitarian frameworks, this episode offers valuable guidance for anyone discerning their place in church leadership—or working to build a faith community rooted in inclusion and conviction.

Key Takeaways: • Unity in Diversity? – The complexities of co-leading a church when leaders hold opposing beliefs on women in ministry roles, and the challenges it raises for church governance and decision-making. • Honoring Women’s Gifting – Why flexibility matters, and how lack of clarity in theology and modeling can perpetuate confusion and exclusion, especially for women seeking freedom in their calling. • The Positive Case for Women in Ministry – A biblical framework starting from Genesis 1-2, with examples from the Old Testament, Jesus’s ministry, and Paul’s writings, including key figures like Phoebe, Junia, and Priscilla. • Reading the Fruit – Encouragement from Bonnie to consider the impact and outcomes of different theological interpretations in practice, not just in theory. • The Role of Theological Disagreement – Why some dialogues may work better in open forums than in the shared leadership of a church body.

Resources Mentioned: • Upcoming “Heated” Event Recording – A two-hour teaching and Q&A session with Mike and Bonnie on women in leadership (coming soon!). • Romans 16 – Paul’s commendation of women ministry leaders. • 1 Corinthians 11, Ephesians 5 – Scriptural passages addressing women in the context of early church participation. • Episode 18 – “Is the Bible Anti-Women?” with Bonnie Lewis • Episode 46 – “Women in Leadership” with Bonnie Lewis

Have you wrestled with this question in your own church context? We’d love to hear from you. Send your thoughts and feedback to hello@voxpodcast.com and join the conversation online.

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