Why You Stay Loyal to The People Who Hurt You

Everything is fine until it isn't. The moment when you start noticing the twinge in your stomach, and you can't ignore it anymore, marks the threshold of an awakening to what may be the reality of toxic relationships in your life. Codependents are those who sacrifice the self for a toxic one way relationship, whereas a narcissist sacrifices the relationship for the sake of their ego. When a codependent, highly empathic individual begins to awaken, they cannot unsee what they now see: the passive aggressiveness, the stonewalling, disrespect, and minimization.

Many adult children of toxic family systems, are programmed to deny, ignore, and never feel their true feelings. They learned early that connecting with their painful inner reality threatened their connections to others, which triggered a sense of fear and abandonment. Although this is a subconscious pathway, it is possible to awaken from the faulty negative, subconscious childhood programs that are rooted in the fear of abandonment and the experience of emotional neglect.

In this episode, Lisa A. Romano unpacks the subconscious programming behind why so many trauma survivors and codependent personalities stay loyal to people who repeatedly hurt them. From passive-aggressive group chats to unspoken exclusion, emotional manipulation often hides behind denial and "that's just how they are" thinking.

But here's the truth:

You weren't born to tolerate disrespect — you were programmed to.

In this episode, you'll learn:

✨ Why your brain links saying no to abandonment and danger 🧠 How early rejection creates lifelong tolerance for BS 🎭 The difference between overt narcissists and covert "poor me" manipulators ⚔️ Why the first boundary is the hardest step — and how to push through it 🦋 How to reclaim your self-respect and rise above emotional slavery

This episode is for you if:

✔️ You make excuses for people who repeatedly disappoint you ✔️ You second-guess your instincts and minimize your own pain ✔️ You feel guilty for cutting people off — even when they hurt you ✔️ You're finally ready to stop walking on eggshells and start walking in truth

Begin Your Breakthrough

If you're ready to interrupt the subconscious patterns that keep you stuck in people-pleasing and emotional slavery, Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program will guide you step by step into emotional freedom.

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