#121 - ...Because You're Going to Die | Ned Buskirk (YG2D)

Today’s show is with an old friend. Ned Buskirk is the big-hearted, emotive MC of “You’re Going to Die, Poetry Prose and Everything Goes” an open mic on the subject of death, dying, and grief. Embracing impermanence is one of the paradoxical keys to a life like a festival, to live in the moment we have to learn to let go. On the show we discuss the important impermanence of a festival and how the shorter lives of our pets teach us to cultivate sacredness. Ned shares how the process of losing his mother and step-mother led to the creation of his unique open-mic. We talk about tears and masculinity and Ned’s special presence as Master of Ceremonies. He tells us about bringing his offering to San Quentin as “Alive Inside.” We share our favorite quotes about loss and death. Finally Ned talks about the You’re Going to Die podcast and we talk shop about making art. Ned is the host and CEO of You’re Going to Die (YG2D), a 501(c)3 nonprofit which started as a poetry night in 2009. In addition to the iconic open mic, the nonprofit supports two programs “Alive Inside” and “Songs for Life.” Alive Inside hosts a version of the above shows for the incarcerated. Songs for Life is a free program where musicians offer their talents & companionship, playing music & writing songs for hospice patients & their communities. YG2D’s most recent venture is a popular podcast where Ned interviews many of his heroes in holding space for grief. There are two truths that Ned shares. One is that you’re going to die. The other is that you haven’t yet. The rest is up to you. Links Ned Buskirk: http://www.nedbuskirk.com/ You’re Going to Die, Poetry Prose and Everything Goes: http://www.yg2d.com/ Alive Inside: https://www.alive-inside.com/ Songs for Life: https://www.songsforlife.info/ You're Going to Die: The Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-going-to-die-the-podcast/id1504333055 “See You in the Morning Light” by Scott Ferreter: https://scott-ferreter.bandcamp.com/releases Timestamps :12 - Death and the impermanence of a festival :19 - Why I keep a meditation on dying in my bathroom
:28 - Sacredness in letting go of pets :35 - How Ned lost his mother and step-mother and created You’re Going to Die :52 - Tears and masculinity in MCing grief and death :59 - “Alive Inside” the YG2D prison project 1:15 - Quotes about loss and death 1:24 - Meaninglessness creates space for meaning 1:30 - Podcasting: Share the thing you most don’t want to share