The Lila Rose Show E235: The Biggest Mistakes Women Make With Men (That Pushes Them Away) | Lila Rose Show
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Jul 29, 2025 
Alison Armstrong, a renowned relationship expert and author, joins to unravel the complexities of male-female dynamics. She discusses how women often unintentionally emasculate men through common behaviors like over-explaining and interrupting, pushing them into defensive postures. Alison shares insights on the differing thought processes of men and women, and offers practical advice on how to request needs effectively. With tips on appreciation and clarity in communication, listeners learn how to foster deeper connections and transform relationships.
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Different Brains, Different Listening
- Men and women have different brain configurations and attention styles which cause many misunderstandings.
- Listening with the question "what's real for them?" reveals motivations and reduces conflict.
'Frog Farmer' Seminar Story
- Allison recounts a seminar story where a woman was labeled a "frog farmer" for turning princes into frogs by antagonizing men.
- Herb provoked her to show how provocative behavior brings out primitive male responses.
Ask For A Time To Talk
- Ask for a time to talk before bringing up important requests so a single-focused man can focus on the conversation.
- Follow structured steps when asking so he can understand, respond, and commit to action.
