

What we know about the murder of Lilie James
Mar 23, 2025
The tragic murder of Lilie James is examined, revealing the timeline leading to her death involving a problematic relationship with Paul Thijssen. The coronial inquest sheds light on alarming evidence, including CCTV footage that points to premeditation. Listeners learn about Lilie’s vibrant life and career aspirations in sports management, abruptly cut short. The discussion also touches on the emotional toll on her family and emphasizes the urgent need for societal change to address and prevent violence.
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Lily James's Murder
- On October 25, 2023, 21-year-old Lily James's body was found at St. Andrews Cathedral School in Sydney.
- Police ruled her death a homicide and named Paul Tyson, with whom she had a brief relationship, as the prime suspect.
Coercive Control
- Tyson exhibited extreme coercive control during his short relationship with James, including stalking and emotional manipulation.
- He monitored her location, became agitated about her interactions with others, and employed tactics to erode her self-worth.
Defining Coercive Control
- Coercive control, a form of domestic violence, involves denying a victim autonomy and independence.
- It's being criminalized across Australia, highlighted by the Hannah Clarke case, and often precedes partner homicides.