A Journey of Singlehood: Being 41 and Single at My Sister's Wedding

At the tender age of 41, I found myself single and attending my sister's wedding without a date. Initially feeling down and embarrassed, I realized that this event was not about me, but rather about celebrating my sister. With a newfound perspective, I took the opportunity to deliver a memorable speech at the wedding, even going so far as to provide my phone number on a slide and jokingly inviting aunties to send profiles and marriage proposals. Little did I know, this humorous gesture would lead to a paid speaking gig. While I didn't find a date at the wedding, I did discover newfound confidence in public speaking and a sense of self-assurance in embracing my single status.