Talk To Me Sis Sam Tomlinson, Connor's Dad | Talk to Me Sis #24
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Aug 18, 2025 Sam Tomlinson, father of Connor Tomlinson, shares his insights on co-parenting, raising a child with autism, and navigating family dynamics post-divorce. He recounts the emotional journey during Connor's diagnosis and discusses the importance of maintaining a positive environment for children. The conversation also highlights the impact of the show 'Love on the Spectrum' on raising awareness about autism. Sam emphasizes the value of supportive co-parenting and the transformative power of connection amid challenges.
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Meeting That Changed His Life
- Sam met Lise at a cousin's wedding which led him to move from England to the U.S. and change his life direction.
- He describes growing up near London, playing soccer obsessively, and being a twin which shaped his independence.
Early Signs Depend On Your Benchmark
- Sam admits his baseline was comparing Connor to more obviously affected children and initially misread early signs as phases.
- He later recognized differences: sensitivity to sound, touch, limited eye contact, and delayed recall as meaningful signals.
Diagnosis Day: Move Forward
- At the diagnosis appointment the conclusion came quickly and Sam shifted to problem-solving rather than anger.
- He focused on improving each day rather than mapping Connor's entire life from that moment.