Abdullah Oduro How Modern Men Get Fooled By Women Before Marriage
Nov 16, 2025
Explore the intriguing distinction between outward religious appearances and genuine faith. Discover how social media can distort perceptions of modesty, turning devotion into a performative act. Abdullah highlights red flags that indicate superficial piety, such as quoting scripture without discipline and lack of humility. Learn the importance of assessing private devotion and the role of emotional maturity in handling conflict. Key traits like consideration for others and true chastity emerge as core signs of a heartfelt connection to faith.
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Don't Mistake Image For Inner Faith
- Religious appearance does not equal inner piety or God-consciousness.
- Do not start and finish your assessment with the hijab or aesthetic alone.
Check For Validation Over Submission
- Look for signs that she seeks validation on social media rather than submission to Allah.
- Ask questions when likes and display seem to drive her presentation of faith.
Seek Faith With Consistent Discipline
- Verify that her faith shows in disciplined habits like prayer and mosque attendance.
- Avoid marrying someone whose speech about Islam doesn't match their daily actions.