Experts discuss the harmful effects of pornography on relationships, including distorted views, desensitization, and lack of respect. They also explore the potential for recovery and improvement in well-being.
Pornography shapes the perception of young people, redirecting their sexual desires away from healthy relationships.
Pornography creates unsafe homes and relationships, leading to desensitization and objectification of both men and women.
Deep dives
The Detrimental Impact of Pornography on the Brain and Relationships
Dr. William Struthers, a neuroscientist, highlights the harmful effects of pornography on the brain and relationships. By entering the vulnerable neurological state of young people, pornography shapes their perception of what is appropriate and possible, redirecting their sexual desires away from healthy relationships. Similarly, Dr. Jill Manning, a licensed marriage and family therapist, emphasizes that pornography creates unsafe homes and relationships, leading to desensitization and objectification of both men and women. In fact, discovering partners of pornography consumers frequently experience trauma, with some women even meeting the criteria for PTSD.
The Distorted View of Relationships and the Rise of Virtual Reality
Dr. Frieda Bush, an OBGYN, highlights how pornography distorts perceptions of genuine, loving relationships and promotes self-centeredness. Additionally, Dr. Phillips Embardo, a psychology professor, discusses how the accessibility of digital pornography and the early exposure to explicit content can lead young men to immerse themselves in virtual reality, neglecting social interactions and experiencing difficulties in real-life sexual encounters. Dr. Jason S. Carroll, Associate Director of the Wheatley Institute, emphasizes the multitude of studies that demonstrate the negative impact of pornography on relationship stability and satisfaction, with no counter trends indicating positive effects. On a more hopeful note, Heidi Alsringheim, a couples and trauma therapist, affirms that individuals can overcome pornography addiction, leading to increased happiness, improved relationships, and a brighter outlook on life.
As humans, we have an innate desire to connect with others and form meaningful relationships. However, hundreds of studies show that porn can negatively impact our relationships, including how we see others and connect with those around us.
In this episode, we hear from experts Dr. William Struthers, Dr. Jill Manning, Dr. Freda Bush, Dr. Philip Zimbardo, Dr. Jason S. Caroll, and Heidi Als Ringheim on the ways porn impacts how we see, treat, and connect with others.
This episode is part of our Truth About Porn series. Truth About Porn is a current, ever-growing database dedicated to research on the harmful effects of pornography. Learn more at https://truthaboutporn.org/.