Ep 205 What If the Problem Isn’t What You Think? with Heather Deangelis Part 2

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In this episode, Heather addresses the misconceptions surrounding ADHD, particularly the notion that intelligent and successful individuals can't have ADHD. She emphasizes that ADHD can often be the underlying cause of various misdiagnosed conditions like depression, anxiety, and eating disorders. Heather discusses her evolved therapeutic approach, which involves providing more active coaching and grounding clients to prevent them from feeling like they're spinning without direction. She highlights the importance of self-trust, proactive self-care, and healthier dopamine sources for managing ADHD. The conversation also touches on the role of psychoeducation in relationships, the impact of chronic pain, and the benefits of finding the right type of therapy for ADHD. Heather concludes by encouraging listeners to examine and challenge the stories they tell themselves and to seek therapists who truly understand the ADHD brain.

00:00 Addressing Misconceptions About ADHD
01:35 The Role of a Therapist in ADHD Treatment
02:48 Navigating Therapy for ADHD
06:00 The Impact of ADHD on Relationships
09:06 Understanding Dopamine and ADHD
14:03 Personal Journey and Coping Strategies
19:01 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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