In this podcast, the hosts and a guest delve into the cultural phenomenon of Tradwives, discussing their influence and potential dangers. They explore the controversial figure Hannah Pearl Davis, criticize insincere influencers, and examine the perception of housewives over time. The podcast also touches on comedians in podcasting, backlash against traditional gender roles, and the motivations behind embracing traditional gender roles as a tradwife. The concept of 'pick me energy' is also discussed.
Tradwives appeal to those seeking a return to traditional values and a sense of security and protection.
The tradwife movement shares similarities with conservative religious communities in their emphasis on traditional gender roles and family structures.
Individuals may be drawn to the tradwife lifestyle due to personal experiences or traumas, seeking comfort and belonging.
Deep dives
Reasons for being a tradwife
Many women choose to be tradwives for various reasons, such as a desire for a more traditional lifestyle and aesthetics, a rejection of feminism and modernity, and a longing for a sense of security and protection. Some women may also be drawn to the idea of being desired by men and embracing more submissive roles. While these reasons may vary from person to person, it is clear that the tradwife movement appeals to individuals looking for a shift in their life and a return to traditional values.
Similarities to conservative religious communities
The tradwife community shares some similarities with conservative religious communities, such as the emphasis on modesty and adherence to traditional gender roles. Both groups value traditional family structures and reject modern societal norms. The desire for safety and the perception of greater protection from harassment or objectification may also contribute to the appeal of the tradwife lifestyle. While not all tradwives are associated with conservative religions, there are common threads that connect these communities.
Potential motivations and extreme cases
In some cases, individuals may be drawn to the tradwife movement due to personal experiences or traumas that make them seek comfort and security in a more rigid and controlled lifestyle. The desire for a clear sense of identity, a need for belonging, or a response to specific events in their lives could play a role in motivating individuals to adopt tradwife values. It's important to recognize that motivations can vary greatly among the tradwife community, and each person's journey is unique.
The Rise of Trad Wives
Trad wives, also known as traditional wives, have gained popularity through social media platforms. Some women adopt the persona of traditional homemakers, promoting the idea of submitting to husbands and embracing traditional gender roles. This movement has gained attention as it goes against modern norms and is seen as a reaction to the women's liberation movement. It is fueled by increased polarization, smartphone usage, and the backlash against the idea of gender equality. While some genuinely embrace this lifestyle choice, there are concerns about the hypocrisy and potential abusive dynamics within these relationships.
The Traditional Wife Image
The concept of the traditional wife is not new, dating back to the 1950s and 1960s. The image of a submissive wife who excels in domestic chores and uses feminine charms to manipulate her husband has been perpetuated by books like 'Fascinating Womanhood' by Helen Andelin. With the rise of social media and the influencer industry, more individuals have latched onto this persona to gain followers and make money. However, there can be a lack of authenticity, and many who espouse these beliefs do not emphasize the reciprocity and love that should exist in a partnership. This movement has generated controversy and is often linked to extremist far-right ideologies.
While Katherine Dee is away on special assignment, Naama and special guest, Brooke (her IRL bessie) discuss the cultural phenomenon of Tradwives: Who are they? Do they have any influence? Are they... dangerous?