This is Growth! Growth Pill: If You Want Better Results, You Better Change
Nov 12, 2025
The host shares a transformative journey from trying to change others to focusing on self-improvement. A thought-provoking question from a coach prompts a shift in perspective, leading to practical changes in communication and collaboration. By emphasizing what you can control, listeners are encouraged to initiate growth within themselves, ultimately triggering positive outcomes in their environment. The belief that personal change precedes better results resonates throughout the discussion.
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Frustration Turned Into A Turning Point
- Daphne Costa Lopes felt constant frustration early in customer success because she wanted others to change.
- A coach redirected her to ask, "What can you control?" which altered her focus.
You Can't Change Others, Change Yourself
- You can't change other people; you can only change how you show up.
- Altering your behaviour often produces changes in your environment and results.
Focus On What You Can Control
- Focus only on things you can control like how you position ideas and give feedback.
- Change your own communication and collaboration to trigger better outcomes around you.