The Jordan Harbinger Show 743: Dr. Ramani | How to Protect Yourself from a Narcissist Part Two
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Oct 27, 2022 
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and expert on narcissism, delves into the complexities of identifying genuine narcissism versus just selfish behavior. She discusses the alarming rise in narcissistic traits and whether they can be cultivated later in life. The conversation touches on the psychological scars left by narcissistic relationships and the distinct features of covert narcissism. Dr. Ramani offers invaluable strategies for protecting yourself from toxic individuals while emphasizing the importance of self-worth and setting boundaries.
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Impact on Children
- Children of narcissistic parents internalize projections, believing they are flawed.
- They lack the power dynamic to confront their parents, leading to lasting self-esteem issues.
Status-Seeking
- Jordan Harbinger shares examples of influencers who prioritize status over genuine connection.
- One influencer rejected a former consultant's podcast appearance request due to insufficient fame.
Transactional Relationships
- Narcissists view relationships transactionally, "trading up" partners based on status.
- Those rejected often internalize the blame, questioning their self-worth.
