Abdullah Oduro

Advice I Wish Someone Gave Me Before I Got Married

Aug 15, 2025
The conversation explores essential advice for aspiring couples, tackling cultural challenges faced by Muslim men in the West. Key topics include grounding marriage in knowledge of Allah and applying the Prophet's example to modern relationships. Listeners learn the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and defining non-negotiables. Abdullah shares insights on the significance of recognizing love languages and understanding a partner's cultural context. He also discusses the impact of marriage on social circles and the value of studying divorce to appreciate marriage's sanctity.
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ADVICE

Anchor Marriage In Knowledge Of Allah

  • Learn about Allah to anchor your purpose and decision-making in marriage.
  • Deepening knowledge of God's names and attributes builds humility and firm character.
ADVICE

Follow The Prophet's Example

  • Study the Prophet Muhammad's life to model marriage conduct and masculinity.
  • Apply his courtroom, courting, and household guidance when choosing and leading a family.
ADVICE

Learn Yourself Through Practicing Sunnah

  • Intentionally discover your strengths and limits by practicing sunnahs before marriage.
  • Use those practices to build competence, confidence, and spiritual readiness.
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