Stavvy's World Bonus #154 - Blair Socci [PATREON PREVIEW]
Nov 13, 2025
Blair Socci, a comedian and social media personality, returns to explore the quirky interplay between ayahuasca and Hawaiian pizza. She shares how embracing sincerity transformed her dating life, emphasizing that genuine connections beat early sexual talk. The conversation dives into treating online interactions with respect and sharing personal DM anecdotes, including a Venice pickup gone awry. Blair and Stav also help callers navigate tricky dating dilemmas, reinforcing that honest communication makes dating simpler and more fulfilling.
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Don't Immediately Make DMs Sexual
- Avoid making sexual comments early in DMs because they kill potential connections quickly.
- Treat people on the internet as humans and let conversations develop before turning sexual.
Social Media Turns People Into Transactions
- Blair and Stavros note people treat online interactions like transactions rather than human relationships.
- Viewing courtship as a formula commodifies people and short-circuits genuine connection.
Be Direct About Intentions
- If you want to meet someone, be direct about your intentions instead of forcing sexual talk early.
- Ask plainly whether someone is single and what they're looking for to avoid wasting time.