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The Thais Gibson Podcast

This Is Why A Dismissive Avoidant Fears Compromise & Here's What to Do!

Mar 11, 2024
Discussing dismissive avoidant attachment styles' struggles with compromise in relationships, fear of reliance, learned helplessness, all-or-nothing thinking, and the importance of clear communication. Balancing success and life priorities to achieve success without compromising other important areas.
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Quick takeaways

  • Dismissive avoidants confuse compromise with sacrifice, hindering relationship growth.
  • Dismissive avoidants fear inadequacy in meeting partner's needs, stemming from learned helplessness.

Deep dives

Major Differences Between Compromise and Sacrifice for Dismissive Avoidants

Dismissive avoidant individuals often struggle to make compromises in relationships due to confusing compromise with sacrifice. They have a hard time understanding that compromise benefits both parties, allowing each person to prioritize themselves, unlike sacrifice where one person loses for the other to gain. This confusion stems from their lack of modeling healthy compromises in their upbringing, leading them to believe that meeting someone else's needs requires personal sacrifice.

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