

156. How Do You Connect With Someone You Just Met?
98 snips Jul 30, 2023
How vulnerable should you be with coworkers? The hosts discuss the benefits of sharing personal stories, including a heartfelt look at family relationships. They dive into effective strategies for connecting with new acquaintances and explore the emotional ties to cherished possessions and childhood experiences. Playful visions of ideal days filled with adventure and nature add a light-hearted touch, reminding us of the importance of meaningful interactions. Tune in for insights that could transform your next conversation!
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Preparation for Connection
- Prepare for meetings by researching the person beforehand, like learning about their recent activities.
- This shows genuine interest and makes them feel seen and valued.
36 Questions to Intimacy
- The 36 questions experiment by Arthur and Elaine Aron explores building closeness through escalating self-disclosure.
- It involves three sets of increasingly personal questions, leading to intimacy even between strangers.
Perfect Days
- Mike describes his perfect day involving outdoor activities with loved ones in Hawaii, combining adventure and relaxation.
- Angela's perfect day includes a trip to New York City with her husband, enjoying art, food, and good weather.