
 Not Skinny But Not Fat Jesse Lally: Setting the Record Straight
 May 27, 2025 
 Jesse Lally, a reality TV star from The Valley and a Los Angeles real estate agent, joins the discussion to set the record straight about his tumultuous past with ex-wife Michelle. He candidly addresses co-parenting challenges and shares his feelings about her current boyfriend. Jesse also reflects on the intense dynamics of filming in Santa Barbara, past accusations, and the high stakes of navigating relationships under public scrutiny. His insights reveal the emotional turbulence behind the scenes of reality TV. 
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Cheating as Quitting Relationship
- Jesse Lally sees cheating as a quitter mentality, blaming it on giving up rather than working on a relationship.
 - He regrets derogatory words used but explains they're triggered by betrayal, reflecting unresolved anger.
 
Admission of Cheating Incident
- Jesse Lally recounts confronting the cheating incident, revealing an intervention occurred pre-filming.
 - Michelle admitted kissing another man, which Jesse believes hinted at more than one kiss.
 
Birth Story and Labor Decisions
- Jesse Lally clears up the birth story, explaining hospital restrictions and decisions about epidural, Pitocin, and C-section.
 - He admits feeling responsible for decisions during labor due to COVID limitations but denies being controlling.
 

