How I Turn Nervous Partners Into Sex Gods: How to Brothel BONUS

Nov 20, 2025

Discover how to turn hesitant partners into confident lovers with a three-step invitation framework. Explore the importance of desire check-ins and mutual understanding in creating extraordinary intimacy. Learn about normalizing genital inspections and essential health conversations before sex. Get practical scripts and specific invitations to enhance communication and connection in the bedroom. Uncover how to reframe 'don’ts' into actionable 'do's' for a more fulfilling sexual experience. Transform boundaries into opportunities for mutual joy and confidence.

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INSIGHT

Safety Is The Ultimate Aphrodisiac

Safety boosts sexual enjoyment because it lets people relax into pleasure.
Luna Robby frames safety as the core ingredient for hotter, more creative sex.

ADVICE

Three-Step Lover Invitation

Use a three-step invitation: check in, transition to touching, then give moment-to-moment invitations.
Tailor the framework to each partner and situation for best results.

ADVICE

Start With A Human Check-In

Start with a human check-in about feelings, desires, boundaries, and expectations.
Mirror tone and body language, then co-create a mutual list of wants and limits.

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Luna shares her 3-step lover invitation framework for turning nervous, shy, or hesitant partners into confident, creative lovers. With real scripts, personal stories, and juicy practicals from her work as a legal courtesan, this episode covers everything from desire check-ins and genital inspections to safe-touch communication and transforming don’ts into delicious do’s. A deeply detailed how-to for co-creating extraordinary sex that feels amazing for everyone involved.

00:00 What makes someone an excellent lover + a 3-step invitation framework

03:15 Getting on the same page—check-ins, desires, boundaries, and expectations

10:06 Normalizing genital inspections & safety conversations before sex

15:16 Universal health questions, fluid exchange, and sensory considerations

20:12 Specific invitations that spark co-creative, connected sex

30:10 Condom communication, orgasm talk, and post-ejaculation care

33:15 How boundaries transform shy lovers into radiant, confident partners

35:06 Changing sexual dynamics with long-term partners

40:02 Turning “don’ts” into “do’s” + why talking about it is hot

44:13 Hygiene, nutrition, and the scent of a sexy body

47:31 Mutual joy, confidence, and bringing these learnings into your everyday life

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