I Love Men Crying: Sports and the Dungeon, the Intersection

Ready to challenge perceptions of men, emotions, and sports? Join me in exploring the intriguing links between the fervor of a pub during a match and the emotional liberation I witness in my work as a Dominatrix. This episode uncovers the beauty of unfiltered emotions, the spaces that allow them, and the power they hold. We'll delve into the story of my first profoundly moving session — a testament to human vulnerability. We’ll journey through sports tribalism, my admiration for teams like Manchester City, and the importance of allowing ourselves to express our emotions. Let’s unravel the complexity of men's emotions, the societal pressure they face, and the courage it takes to allow oneself to truly feel.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - My Discovery. Men Crying at the Pub.

(06:30) - Tribalism

(07:55) - Manchester City

(08:45) - Parallels to the Freedom of Emotion in My Work

(12:32) - The First Time a Man Cried for Me

(16:00) - What Does Everyone Want?

(17:15) - What is Sexuality?

(19:40) - How Will Emotion be Integrated in a Tech-driven World?

(22:45) - My Emotional Sadism

(25:15) - My Masochism and Meditation

(26:20) - Freedom

(31:15) - Everyone’s Problem