Midlife Is Killing Your Marriage ft. James Davis

Mar 31, 2025

In this conversation, James Davis, co-founder of The Midlife Mentors, shares his transformative journey from a crumbling marriage to leading a coaching platform for midlife challenges. He discusses subtle warning signs that marriages may be drifting apart and how hormonal changes can impact intimacy. James provides tactical strategies for prioritizing relationships without sacrificing work and family, highlighting the importance of self-reflection and communication. He encourages couples to tackle their challenges head-on and redefine midlife as an opportunity for growth.

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ANECDOTE

James's Midlife Crisis

James Davis's marriage unexpectedly ended in his 40s after building a successful retreat business.
This personal crisis led him to rock bottom, despite having tools to help others.

INSIGHT

Emotional Availability vs. Proximity

Women prioritize emotional availability and may leave if their emotional needs aren't met.
Men often confuse physical proximity with genuine intimacy, leading to disconnection.

ADVICE

Schedule Connection Time

Acknowledge busy periods and schedule dedicated connection time with your partner.
Have short check-ins or moments of eye contact to maintain emotional intimacy.

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Are you staring at your life, wondering how you got here? Feeling like you're doing everything right, yet something's profoundly off?

James Davis, co-founder of The Midlife Mentors, knows this struggle firsthand. He built a thriving retreat business in Ibiza, only to watch his marriage crumble in his 40s. Left alone, he hit rock bottom. But what he did next transformed his life, leading him to create a powerful coaching platform.

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In this conversation, we dissect:

The subtle warning signs that your marriage is drifting into disaster—before it's too late.
Why midlife often feels like a crisis—and how to flip it into an opportunity.
The impact of hormonal changes (low testosterone, menopause) on your relationship and intimacy.
The catastrophic mistakes men make when trying to reconnect with their wives.
Tactical strategies to prioritize your marriage without sacrificing work and family.

James Davis' journey proves that midlife isn't a death sentence; it's a chance for a powerful rebirth. Learn how to reclaim control and navigate this pivotal stage with purpose.

Here's what James's experience and research indicate:

Couples who address relationship drift early have a 40% higher chance of recovery.
Men who address low testosterone and communicate about it with their partner have a 30% increase in intimacy.
Individuals who actively redefine their midlife experience report a 25% increase in life satisfaction.

This episode is a wake-up call, a lifeline, and a roadmap for men navigating the complexities of midlife.

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