Wizard of Ads Monday Morning Memo Ambition and Happiness
“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
“Life… Liberty… and the pursuit of Happiness.”
We published those words 229 years ago when we declared our independence from Britain. That document was the earliest expression of what has come to be known as the American dream.
Jefferson’s Declaration did not free us from the tyranny of Britain. It merely communicated our collective desire to be unfettered and unrestrained.
Do we now feel unfettered and unrestrained? I think not.
It seems to me that our current view of the American dream sees raw ambition as “the pursuit of happiness.”
Ambition is like sexual hunger. It is satisfied with accomplishment only for a moment, and then the hunger returns. Ambition will lead you to momentary satisfaction, but it will not lead you to happiness.
John D. Rockefeller, the world’s first billionaire, was worth 1% of the entire U.S. economy when he was asked,
“How much money does it take to make a man happy?”
Rockefeller answered, “Just a little bit more.”
Ambition is never contented.
Am I condemning ambition? I promise you that I am not. I am merely pointing out the deep chasm that separates the unending hunger of ambition from the high and lofty contentment of happiness.
An old man named Paul wrote a letter to a young man named Timothy 2,000 years ago. Near the end of that letter, Paul wrote about old people and hypocrites and slavery and wealth.
Paul then added two sentences that have echoed in my brain for the past 60 years.
“To know God and to be deeply contented is the true definition of wealth. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.”
Happiness cannot spread its wings while wearing the handcuffs of our ambitions. The shining light of Hope is made of a stronger and happier substance than our dark dreams of future accomplishment.
Ambition can bring you recognition, reputation, and riches. But those are no substitute for friendships, family, and contentment; for these are the three strong cords from which happiness is woven.
Have you figured it out yet? Happiness is not material. It is relational.
With whom do you have a meaningful relationship?
Roy H. Williams
We have solved the mystery of the roving reporter!
The wizard received this email from Italy a couple of days ago:
Dear Roy and Pennie,
Talya and I found this quaint restaurant with tables in its wine cellar and thought you’d love this place. (I don’t drink, but thought it appropriate to pose with a glass of wine — which our son-in-law ordered.) If your future plans bring you to Vincenza, Italy, this is one stop you won’t regret. Avital sends her warmest regards.
– DEAN
(You will find the photo that accompanied this email on the final page of today’s rabbit hole. I’m Ian Rogers.)
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