The Mark Driscoll Podcast How Often Should Couples Have S*x?
Jun 9, 2025
Explore the complex dynamics of sexual intimacy within marriage. Discover the importance of open communication and how differing sexual needs can impact relationships. Delve into the effects of external stressors on intimacy and the rising trend of sexless marriages. Unpack the significance of transparency and adaptability in addressing personal challenges. The discussion highlights that a healthy sexual relationship is key to overall marital satisfaction and can help reveal deeper issues.
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Mutual Agreement on Intimacy
- Do not deprive your spouse of intimacy except by mutual consent for a limited time.
- Regularly communicate and work together to agree on a satisfying frequency for both partners.
Marriage Requires Sexual Connection
- Marriage includes covenant and consummation, expecting a sexual relationship.
- Healthy marital sex should be free (varied) and frequent, not routine or stale.
Adapt Sex Life by Life Seasons
- Consider life seasons like deployment, travel, or illness that affect sexual frequency.
- Be willing to serve your spouse's needs during difficult seasons with self-control and grace.