Ridiculous History

CLASSIC: Benjamin Franklin's Advice On "Finding A Mistress"

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Nov 22, 2025
The hosts dive into Benjamin Franklin's reputation as a notorious womanizer and his infamous 1745 letter on choosing a mistress. They read and dissect his advice on preferring older partners, citing reasons like better conversation and discretion. The conversation considers whether Franklin's words were genuine or satirical, exposing the contradictions in his views. Listeners are also treated to Franklin's humorous takes on drunkenness and anecdotes from the audience, adding a light-hearted touch to the historical exploration.
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INSIGHT

Marriage As The Primary Remedy

  • Benjamin Franklin recommended marriage as the proper remedy for strong sexual inclinations.
  • He framed marriage as the most natural state likely to bring solid happiness.
ANECDOTE

Franklin's Candid Confession

  • Franklin admitted in his autobiography to numerous youthful intrigues that brought expense and health risks.
  • He wrote that his passions led him frequently into affairs with "low women."
ANECDOTE

Reputation As A Womanizer

  • The hosts note Franklin reportedly fathered about 15 illegitimate children and had many affairs.
  • They mention rumors of relationships with significantly younger women and a mother-daughter pair.
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