282. Why Learners Lie (and What to do About It) w/ Rachel Kapp & Steph Pitts
Mar 28, 2022
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Steph and Rachel from the Learn Smarter podcast discuss why learners lie about homework, exploring the motivations behind dishonesty, the developmental appropriateness of lying in children, and strategies for building trust and addressing lying behavior. They emphasize the importance of setting ground rules, helping kids create solutions, and teaching them to plan and achieve tasks. The hosts also highlight the positive impact of planning on learning and growth, and the importance of creating a safe environment for learners to tell the truth.
When addressing lying, use open-ended questions to encourage conversation and understanding.
Respond to uncomfortable truths positively, building trust with learners.
Verify information provided by learners and collaborate with teachers for a complete picture.
Deep dives
Don't set them up to lie
When addressing a potential lie, avoid asking questions that you already know the answer to, as this may lead to defensive or dishonest responses. Instead, focus on open-ended questions that encourage conversation and understanding.
Reward truth telling
Respond to uncomfortable truths in a positive and non-punitive way. Build trust with learners by showing that it is safe for them to tell the truth, even when it is difficult.
Verify, verify, verify
Take the time to verify the information provided by learners to ensure accuracy. Look for evidence or collaborate with teachers to get a complete picture of the situation.
Get ahead of the lying
Identify recurring situations or areas where lying tends to occur and address them proactively. Provide support, create a plan, and offer alternatives that make it easier for learners to meet expectations.
Partnership with schools
Engage with teachers and the school to address potential barriers to the truth-telling process and work together to support learners in meeting their goals.
Hello all! I’m back with Steph and Rachel from the Learn Smarter podcast to talk about a topic that we’ve all likely experienced in some form or another: kids lying about homework.