281: My Wife Thinks I'm Hiding Money | Feedback Friday
Nov 22, 2019
A listener's dilemma about financial trust in a marriage leads to an engaging discussion on boundaries and transparency. The hosts analyze a relatable grocery store scenario about cutting in line, blending humor with social etiquette. They tackle the complexities of children's online safety, advocating for open communication over punitive measures. Personal stories about grief and relationships add depth, alongside insights into navigating toxic interactions and financial discussions, all emphasized with practical advice.
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Grocery Store Line Etiquette
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Your shopaholic wife spends like there's no tomorrow, and is irked that you won't add her to the account for the business you've been running since before you were married. In fact, she loves to gain sympathy from others by telling them you're hiding money away from her -- which irks you. But one practical question did recently come up: What happens to the money in that account if anything should ever happen to you and she doesn't have access to it? On this Feedback Friday, we delve into this and much more!
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It's been a long day. Are you a jerk for not letting someone cut in front of you in the grocery store checkout line just because they say their child is waiting for them in their car and everyone behind you already let them through?
You were able to use the tips you learned about negotiation in our episodes with Alex Kouts and Ramit Sethi to get a raise from your old boss. But now that it's time to ask for an increase, you've got a new boss with whom you haven't yet established rapport. Should you wait?
In another nod to the Alex Kouts episodes, you've negotiated the raises to elevate you into a higher tax bracket -- but you're clueless about how to behave in the associated culture. How do you fit in with your new peers without feeling like you just landed on another planet?
Even though your parents don't let your 10-year-old sister use Instagram because they don't want her interacting with creepy DMs from predators, she's allowed to use TikTok because of the "funny videos" even though you know the creeps are there, too. How can you keep her safe?
Three years ago, you married a widow whose husband died three years before that. You don't really have a problem talking about him with her, but you no longer want to visit his grave with her where she breaks down and makes you feel like a consolation prize. Is this wrong of you?
Your shop-happy wife is irked that she doesn't have access to the business account you've had since before you got married, and...
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