Psychology In Seattle Podcast Sex Emails
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Dec 25, 2024 The hosts tackle listener emails on provocative topics, starting with the murky waters of retroactive jealousy in relationships. They explore how personal histories shape emotional responses and the need for open communication. The conversation shifts to navigating intimacy challenges, discussing sexual desires, dreams, and the impact of unresolved childhood trauma. Finally, they dive deep into the complexities of victim and perpetrator dynamics, advocating for empathy amidst difficult conversations about abuse and consent.
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Retroactive Jealousy
- Retroactive jealousy is when you're fixated on your partner's past relationships.
- This isn't a clinical term, but it reflects insecurities about your partner's past.
Humberto's Jealousy Experience
- Humberto experienced retroactive jealousy in college due to societal expectations and personal insecurities.
- He felt entitled to his jealousy, stemming from patriarchal views and past trauma.
Managing Jealousy
- Excessive retroactive jealousy can signal underlying issues like abandonment trauma.
- Address these through therapy or attachment security work.