
The Sam Sanders Show Can We Survive the Gift Guide Industrial Complex?
Dec 16, 2025
Join Sam as he chats with Avery Trufelman, a podcast host and journalist renowned for exploring fashion and material culture. They dive into the chaotic world of holiday gift guides, discussing the overwhelming pressure of consumerism and the quest for meaningful gifts. Avery shares insights on the significance of local recommendations and the intersection of military influence in outdoor apparel. Their conversation also touches on the transformative impact of clear affiliate practices and the importance of building community through gift-giving.
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Gift Guides As Performance
- Gift guide culture has become a year-end performance of taste rather than a genuine gift-finding practice.
- Sam and Avery call this the 'holiday gift guide industrial complex' that pressures performative consumption.
The Hunt Beats Clicks
- Sam describes hunting for a very specific, personal gift for his partner that can't be sourced from generic guides.
- He emphasizes the joy of the 'hunt' and relying on community and local stores to find the right item.
Guides Grow Tastemakers
- Good gift guides often serve as cultural tastemaking tools that gain followers, not just shopping lists.
- Writers use guides to prove taste and build audiences, sometimes with affiliate incentives underneath.

