Jessica Long, a six-time Paralympic swimmer and author, opens up about her remarkable journey from adoption to becoming one of America’s most decorated athletes. She discusses the role of resilience and visualization in sports, emphasizing the power of a winner's mindset—"don’t you dare give up." Jessica talks about her transformation through pain and purpose, the importance of acknowledging emotions, and her mission to boost the visibility of the Paralympics, while sharing her poignant stories of forgiveness and identity.
Jessica Long emphasizes that true self-worth is derived from within, independent of external validation or accolades in sports.
Acknowledging and embracing difficult emotions is vital for personal growth, allowing individuals to transform pain into purpose and strength.
Visualization plays a critical role in Jessica's training, preparing her to face both triumphs and challenges with mental resilience.
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Jessica Long's Inspirational Journey
Jessica Long, a Paralympic champion, was born with congenital leg defects leading to double amputation and placed for adoption at a young age. Adopted by a loving family, she discovered a passion for sports, particularly swimming, which allowed her to compete without prosthetics. Her early experiences of feeling different fueled her drive and desire to succeed, ultimately leading her to become one of the most decorated Paralympic swimmers with 31 medals. Jessica's story exemplifies the importance of finding one’s place and identity in the world, using sports as a means of empowerment and self-acceptance.
Finding Purpose Beyond Proving Worth
In her reflections, Jessica discusses how her initial drive was rooted in proving her worth as a person with a disability. She emphasizes that the desire for validation can be a double-edged sword, motivating some while causing existential doubts in others. Over time, she learned that true self-worth comes from within, independent of external accolades or validation. This realization has transformed her approach to competition, focusing on the joy of the sport and the impact she can have on others, rather than merely the medals.
Embracing Emotions: From Pain to Purpose
Jessica speaks to the importance of acknowledging one's feelings, including anger and pain, as critical components of the human experience. She believes that embracing and working through these difficult emotions can lead to personal growth and transformation. By sharing her story, she hopes to inspire others to use their pain as fuel for purpose, encouraging them to find strength in vulnerability. This journey of emotional transparency enables individuals to connect more deeply with themselves and others, ultimately fostering resilience and empathy.
Visualizing Success and Overcoming Challenges
Jessica highlights the power of visualization in her training, where she mentally rehearses every aspect of her races, including overcoming potential setbacks. This technique prepares her not just for success, but for unexpected challenges that might arise during competition. By envisioning both triumphs and obstacles, she believes athletes can build resilience and adaptability in the face of adversity. Jessica's focus on mental preparation underscores the idea that success is achieved not just through physical ability, but also through mental strength.
The Future of Paralympic Sports
Looking ahead to her final competition in the 2028 Paralympics, Jessica expresses her desire to elevate the visibility and appreciation of Paralympic sports. She acknowledges the ongoing challenges in garnering the same recognition as able-bodied sports, emphasizing the need for more audience engagement. Jessica hopes that sharing diverse athlete stories will inspire greater public interest and support for the Paralympics. Her ambition is to create a legacy that advances disability representation and empowers future generations to embrace their uniqueness.
Every competitive sport has its icons. To reach the top of their game, each of the champions we celebrate and adore must travel a difficult, often grueling path. And then there is Jessica Long—one of the most decorated American athletes of all time, a six-time Paralympic Games swimmer who in September 2024 won her 31st Paralympic medal (at the time of this writing, 18 of them gold!). In this podcast, Tami Simon speaks with Jessica about her life in and out of the pool—including her work as an inspirational speaker and her book Beyond the Surface.
Listen now to this powerful conversation on how we can transform our greatest struggles into the best possible outcomes, as Tami and Jessica discuss: claiming your intrinsic worth; the importance of goal-setting and challenging yourself to grow; turning pain into purpose; staying open to anger, shame, anxiety, and the full range of our emotions; reframing the situations we didn’t choose for ourselves; the winner’s mindset according to Jessica Long—“don’t you dare give up”; visualization and the superpower that is your mind; faith and forgiveness; boosting the popularity of the Paralympics and hearing the stories of its many remarkable athletes; and more.
Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of Insights at the Edge are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&As with our guests. Learn more at join.soundstrue.com.
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