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Why is it so hard to talk about consent?

Jun 15, 2025
Jennifer Offren, a seasoned social worker with 20 years in sexual violence, and Dea Nera Exner Cortens, a psychology professor specializing in teen violence, delve into the complexities of consent. They unpack the societal difficulties in discussing consent, emphasizing the need for comprehensive education and open dialogues. Their conversation highlights the evolving understanding of consent across different age groups, the impact of cultural norms, and the importance of teaching boundaries and assertiveness, particularly to children.
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INSIGHT

Consent Requires Enthusiastic Yes

  • Consent must be an enthusiastic, voluntary, informed "yes" throughout an encounter.
  • Misunderstandings about consent arise because many don't fully grasp its legal and practical nuances.
ADVICE

Foster Open Consent Discussions

  • Approach consent education without judgment or scare tactics.
  • Invite open discussion about complicated, nuanced situations to improve comfort and understanding.
INSIGHT

Rape Myths Hamper Consent

  • Rape myths and victim-blaming remain widely held, complicating consent discussions.
  • Education about what genuine consent means is key to overcoming these misconceptions.
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