Are You A Charlotte? D*ck or Treat? with Benito Skinner (S2 E9 "Old Dogs, New Dicks")
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Aug 14, 2025 In this episode, comedian Benito Skinner, a die-hard Sex and the City fan, shares his insights on why Carrie and Big are the ultimate couple and critiques Miranda's treatment of Steve. He dives into the themes of love's complexities in 'Old Dogs, New Dicks', while reflecting on iconic character dynamics and moments that shaped their stories. With humor and candor, Benito also discusses vulnerability in intimacy and the intersection of personal identity with societal expectations, making for an entertaining and thought-provoking conversation.
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Big And Carrie's Complicated Compatibility
- Benito defends Big as flawed but genuinely loving Carrie, noting a mix of friction and affection across their years together.
- He argues viewers underestimate their compatibility and focus too quickly on labeling Big as purely terrible.
Key Scenes Change Viewer Sympathy
- Kristin and Benito highlight specific scenes (Italian restaurant, bar with cigar) as tonal pivots that shift sympathy for Big.
- They say actions, not labels, determine when a character moves from charming to cringe.
Cultural Hedging Explains Flirting Patterns
- Benito and Kristin discuss a cultural pattern where straight men assume something 'better' is always available, normalizing flirting.
- They suggest this hedging behavior reduces perceived stakes in relationships and explains recurring jealousy themes.