How To Not Settle and Find God's Best with Madi Prewett Troutt
Oct 31, 2023
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"Truth Talks with Tara" welcomes Madi Prewett Troutt, speaker, author, and a strong believer. They discuss not settling for less than God's best and finding love through Christ. Madi tells her journey to discovering contentment in singleness and shares her inspiration for her groundbreaking book. The importance of quality sleep and building relationships is also explored. Finally, the speakers emphasize finding satisfaction in God and seeking His will, surrounded by godly influences.
Red flags in relationships include dating for potential and a lack of alignment between beliefs and behaviors.
Balancing standards and grace is crucial in dating, focusing on personal growth, and surrounding oneself with wise counsel.
Deep dives
Red Flags in Relationships
One important aspect to consider in relationships is being aware of red flags. These red flags serve as warning signs that a potential partner may not be suitable for a healthy and God-honoring relationship. One red flag is dating for potential, focusing on a person's future possibilities rather than who they are in the present. Another red flag is when a person's beliefs and behaviors do not align, indicating a lack of authenticity. Evaluating a person's behavior patterns and surrounding influences is crucial, as bad company can corrupt good morals. It is important to remember that relationships should be about pushing each other closer to Jesus and fulfilling God's purpose, and that strong and healthy relationships are built on a foundation of two people wholeheartedly pursuing Christ.
Dating Standards and Grace
When it comes to dating, it is essential to strike a balance between having standards and extending grace. Having high standards without grace can lead to judgment and unrealistic expectations. Instead, it is crucial to evaluate and honor the person's journey, recognizing that growth and transformation happen in partnership with the Holy Spirit. Focusing on your own spiritual growth and leading yourself well can provide a solid foundation for a healthy relationship. Remember to surround yourself with wise counsel and evaluate whether a person's actions align with their beliefs. Love is built on action, not just intentions, and patterns of behavior indicate a person's character and values.
Dealing with Rejection and God's Plan
Rejection is a common and painful experience in relationships, whether it's feeling rejected because you are single amidst friends getting married or experiencing rejection in a past relationship. It is important to remember that God works all things together for good. Rejection can lead to a deeper relationship with God and a redirection towards His best for your life. Closed doors and unmet expectations can be God's way of protecting you and leading you to something better. Trust in God's sovereignty and His desire for your ultimate fulfillment. Remember that His plan is better than your own and embrace the journey towards His best for you.
Finding the Right Relationship
The key to finding the right relationship is to seek someone who leads themselves well and is committed to pursuing a relationship that aligns with God's purpose. Evaluate whether a person's behavior patterns and actions reflect a wholehearted pursuit of Jesus. Avoid dating someone for their potential and instead focus on who they are in the present. Understand that strong and healthy relationships are built on a foundation of two people fully seeking after God and pushing each other closer to Him. Look for a person who shows potential to lead you spiritually and encourages your growth in faith. Remember that finding the right relationship involves not only finding God's best for you but also evaluating your compatibility as a couple.
Friends! Welcome to Truth Talks with Tara! So thankful you're here.
Who's ready for an episode all about love, dating, red flags, and finding love in Christ first (that really changes everything), with Madi Prewett Troutt? You may know her from her debut on The Bachelor. Madi is an author, speaker, and incredibly encouraging sister in Christ. Put in your headphones and listen to a conversation about how to stop settling for less than God's best, how to live from a place of being loved, not for love, and so much more.
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