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 Pastor Writer: Conversations on Reading, Writing, and the Christian Life Preston Ulmer — Good-Faith Conversations with Those Who Doubt
 Nov 18, 2021 
 Preston Ulmer, founder of the Doubters’ Club, is passionate about fostering friendship between Christians and atheists. He shares insights on creating empathetic dialogues that encourage understanding and connection amid differing beliefs. Ulmer discusses the need for churches to adapt to cultural shifts and engage meaningfully with skeptics through initiatives like his Doubters’ Club. He emphasizes practical strategies for nurturing faith conversations, moving beyond traditional conversion tactics to build authentic relationships. 
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The Coffee Shop Inspiration
- Preston Ulmer asked a coffee shop owner what church he attended, receiving laughter and a critical response.
- This interaction inspired the Doubters Club, a space for open dialogue between Christians and non-Christians.
The Need to Be Right
- People often derive their identity from being right, especially in Christian circles where certainty is valued.
- Others outside these circles seek to be heard, but their stories are bypassed in favor of doctrinal correctness.
Responding to Deconstruction
- When engaging with those deconstructing their faith, understand their specific struggles.
- Walk alongside them with empathy, allowing them to land at different conclusions without judgment.

