A Slob Comes Clean 295: Getting Started is NOT a Team Effort Podcast
May 6, 2021
Starting a decluttering project doesn't require the support of others—it's all about taking individual initiative. Waiting for others can stall your progress, so focus on what you can control. Small actions like doing the dishes can build momentum. Tackling trash first is a no-prep way to kick-start the process. Working alone allows for personal growth without pressure. Finally, clearing your own items helps clarify what belongs to you, making it easier to invite cooperation from others.
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Start Before Getting Everyone On Board
- Do start decluttering on your own instead of waiting for everyone to agree or help.
- Use your emotional energy to act, not to persuade others first.
You Can Only Control Yourself
- You can only control your own actions and energy; trying to control others wastes the resources you need to start.
- Mobilize your energy toward small, doable tasks instead of emotional labor to persuade others.
Show, Don’t Lecture — Do The Dishes
- Do demonstrate change by doing simple daily habits like dishes so others gain a frame of reference.
- Start with visible, neutral, or your own items to create momentum and notice real progress.