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Play Therapy Parenting Podcast

S2E32 - Raising Kids Who Self-Regulate: A New Parenting Series

Jan 9, 2025
This discussion delves into the art of raising self-regulating children, highlighting how power struggles can harm parent-child relationships. The focus is on fostering autonomy by empowering kids to take responsibility for their actions. Practical strategies are shared to enhance emotional vocabulary and self-regulation skills. The goal is to shift away from control-based parenting to create happier homes and stronger family bonds, ultimately leading to more harmonious dynamics.
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Quick takeaways

  • Empowering children with responsibility fosters self-regulation, reducing power struggles and enhancing parent-child relationships.
  • Setting clear boundaries while maintaining emotional connections is crucial for helping children develop autonomy and emotional intelligence.

Deep dives

Understanding Power Struggles

Power struggles between parents and children often arise from a desire for control on both sides, leading to deteriorating relationships. Parents generally want their children to self-regulate and follow established expectations, but children frequently act on immediate emotions rather than rational thinking. When parents respond to these struggles with control and authority, they inadvertently reinforce the very behaviors they want to eliminate, encouraging children to push boundaries rather than learn self-discipline. A better approach involves setting clear limits while maintaining emotional connections, allowing children to develop their ability to regulate themselves.

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