Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

Why Men’s Need for Sex Can Destroy Intimacy | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep338

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Nov 10, 2025
This podcast tackles the complex dynamics of intimacy and sexual need in relationships. Cass and Kathryn discuss how men's demands can sometimes harm emotional connections, leading to frustration and resentment. They explore typical male reactions to sexual rejection, emphasizing the importance of communication and safety in intimacy. The duo also touches on harmful concepts like 'job sex' and the need for better relationship role models. Listeners gain insight into building healthier connections and the tools necessary for intimacy restoration.
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INSIGHT

Stay Present Before Fixing Things

  • Emotions in the moment don't need fixing; show up and hold space instead.
  • Cass says first respond with presence, not solutions, when your partner is triggered.
ANECDOTE

Validation-Seeking Sparked Early Fights

  • Cass recounts their early fights where he sought validation by listing his good deeds.
  • That dynamic revealed entitlement and sparked distrust in their intimacy.
INSIGHT

Entitlement Erodes Intimacy

  • Entitlement to sex creates passive-aggressive or aggressive behavior that erodes trust.
  • Kathryn highlights how remarks and accusations amplify shame and distance.
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