Explore the fear of imperfection and its impact on being authentic. Learn from comedians, athletes, and actors. Try exercises on self-acceptance and building your future self. Discover mindstrong mantras and embrace experimentation over perfection.
Perfectionism can prevent you from being your authentic self and reaching your potential.
Embracing imperfections and learning from them leads to authenticity, connection, and personal growth.
Deep dives
Recognizing the prevalence of perfectionism
Perfectionism is becoming increasingly common, especially among young people, due to societal pressures and the desire to be perfect. The podcast host shares their personal experience with perfectionism, particularly in relation to their goals as a professional athlete. They explore the reasons behind perfectionism, including expectations from others and the need for external validation. The negative consequences of perfectionism, such as anxiety and stress, are discussed.
Accepting imperfections as part of being human
The podcast emphasizes the importance of accepting imperfections and not striving for an unattainable notion of perfection. The host shares their journey of self-acceptance, particularly in relation to their physical condition, and highlights the value of recognizing and embracing one's unique qualities. The podcast challenges the notion that perfection is necessary for acceptance, highlighting examples of admired public figures who embrace their imperfections.
Overcoming the fear of imperfection
The podcast offers strategies for overcoming the fear of imperfection. It encourages listeners to focus on self-acceptance and acknowledging what can and cannot be controlled. The importance of setting intrinsic goals and adopting a growth mindset is emphasized. The podcast suggests using self-talk cues and mantras to cultivate courage and confidence in embracing imperfections.
Embracing imperfection as part of the journey
The podcast concludes by reminding listeners that life is not about seeking perfection, but rather about embracing imperfections and learning from them. The host highlights that authenticity and connection with others often stem from one's willingness to show their true selves, including their flaws. The episode encourages listeners to give themselves permission to be imperfect and to pursue their goals with self-compassion and a positive mindset.
Have you felt like you could never reach other people’s expectations?
In this episode, Lewis discusses the fear of imperfection and how it can prevent you from being your most authentic self. He shares personal experiences and practical exercises to help you recognize and embrace your imperfections and encourages you to show up in life as your most authentic self.
[4:55] Symptoms of Perfectionism
[7:37] Why Are We Afraid to be Imperfect?
[11:02] What You Can Learn From Comedians, Athletes, and Actors About Dealing with Perfectionism
[13:37] Exercise on Self-Acceptance
[17:46] Questions to Ask Yourself Based On Your Acceptance & Non-Acceptance Lists
[18:38] Building the Idea of Who You Want to Be in the Future
[20:05] The Question to Ask Yourself Whenever You Feel Perfectionism Creeping In
[22:16] Mindstrong Mantras: How to Bring Out Your Ideal Self in the Moment
[24:46] A Tip for Creating Your MindStrong Mantra
[26:55] Parting Thoughts
[28:41] Life is Not About Perfection. Life is About Experimentation