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Sadia Khan - Why ‘Nice Guys’ Always Finish Last & How To Be More Alpha To Get Results

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Mar 23, 2025
Sadia Khan, a relationship psychologist and viral content creator, uncovers why 'nice guys' often finish last. She discusses the importance of confidence and assertiveness in attracting respect and genuine connections. The conversation explores the differences in dating cultures between Dubai and London, the complexities of modern masculinity, and the impact of parenting on men's self-esteem. Sadia shares strategies for redefining alpha behavior, emphasizing mutual respect and personal accountability to foster healthier relationships.
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INSIGHT

Nice Guys and Masculinity

  • Nice guys often lack masculinity, hindering sexual investment from women.
  • They may be friends or partners, but intimacy and sexual attraction disappear.
ADVICE

Deciding to Break Up

  • Imagine your partner never changing; can you accept them as they are?
  • If not, leave because expecting change is futile; if so, practice radical acceptance.
INSIGHT

Origins of the "Nice Guy"

  • Men raised by mothers who criticize their fathers often become "nice guys" seeking validation.
  • They reject their fathers' masculinity, embracing submissiveness, which women eventually disrespect.
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