The Suzanne Venker Show Ep. 189. Love & Money Series: The best thing you can do for your marriage is to fight about money
Dec 7, 2023
In this enlightening discussion, family law attorney Bernadette Barbee shares her expertise on financial infidelity in marriage. She highlights the dangers of keeping separate accounts and the necessity of financial transparency. The conversation delves into humorous takes on 'girl math', revealing how irrational spending can strain relationships. Barbee emphasizes the importance of open communication, shared financial goals, and understanding deeper relational issues to build trust and enhance marital dynamics.
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Financial Infidelity Reveals Deeper Issues
- Financial infidelity is a spectrum of behaviors involving secrecy or omission about money in marriage.
- These financial betrayals signify deeper relationship issues like misalignment and lack of trust.
Agree On Shared Budget Plan
- Create a shared financial vision and agree on a budget plan as a couple.
- Regularly discuss and follow through on the plan to build trust and move forward together.
Separate Accounts Undermine Trust
- Marriages with separate accounts often start with an adversarial dynamic, lacking full trust.
- Keeping money separate from the start undermines the idea of working together as a team in marriage.