The Pat Kenny Show Why do some people steal your thunder at life events?
Oct 7, 2025
Ever wondered why some people upstage you during special moments? Discover the reasons behind this behavior, ranging from anxiety to envy. One guest shares insights on identifying intentional and unintentional thunder-stealers. Learn practical tips for handling these interruptions, such as calmly addressing the behavior later and suggesting re-celebration. It's a fascinating exploration of social dynamics and how to keep your moments in the spotlight!
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Hidden Motives For Stealing Moments
- Moment-stealing often reflects deeper drivers like insecurity, envy, or a need to be centre stage rather than mere rudeness.
- These behaviors aim to equalise attention and reduce the stealer's anxiety about not being special.
Not Always Deliberate Undermining
- Many moment-stealers act unconsciously or from poor social awareness, not explicit malice.
- Narcissistic personality types, however, genuinely lack empathy and stay focused on themselves.
Ignore Now, Address Later
- Ignore the interruption during the event and protect your day from being ruined by them.
- Note the behaviour afterwards and call it out, asking them not to announce things on your special day in future.