Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto 18: Dr Vanessa Lapointe and Stephanie: Big Emotions, Attachment and Intention.
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Feb 18, 2024 Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, an internationally recognized expert in parenting, joins the conversation to shed light on what children truly need from their parents. They discuss the critical role of attachment in fostering resilience, emphasizing that emotional connection shapes a child's ability to navigate life's challenges. The discussion highlights the necessity of expressing emotions instead of suppressing them and differentiates between discipline and punishment. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their imperfections, fostering authentic connections with their children.
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Attachment and Its Impact
- Attachment is the bond between a child and their primary caregiver, shaping their internal working model.
- Secure attachment leads to better emotional regulation, relationships, academic performance, and health.
Hardy vs. Hardened Kids
- We should raise hardy kids, not hardened kids, by supporting emotional expression.
- Suppressing emotions can lead to future outbursts and mental health struggles.
Stephanie's Fainting Spells
- Stephanie Pinto fainted when overwhelmed, demonstrating suppressed emotions.
- This highlights how unaddressed stress can manifest physically, even in seemingly healthy individuals.
