This latest episode unpacks the advanced parenting strategy of 'Match the Energy, but not the Dysregulation', a technique rooted in insights from polyvagal theory and interpersonal neurobiology. It’s a nuanced approach that requires resilience and patience, but when applied consistently, it can offer a remarkably accurate emotional mirror for your children and pave the way for improved connection.

In this episode you’ll learn:

The advanced parenting strategy of ‘Matching The Energy, But Not The Dysregulation’
To better identify how far down the Watchdog or Possum pathway your child is
Advanced techniques and strategies need practice, you won't be an expert at them immediately

Resources mentioned in this podcast:

Lisa Dion Podcast - Regulated Does Not Equal Calm {Ep 31}
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Start Here Podcasts - robyngobbel.com/starthere

Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/matchtheenergy

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