What do control, perfectionism, and money have in common?

For many of us, they’re deeply rooted in childhood wounds, and they’re the very blocks standing between us and our manifestations.

In this heartfelt Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica respond to powerful community questions that crack open the real energetics behind love, money, motherhood, and glass ceilings. Whether you’re navigating burnout, trying to call in more income, or craving peace while juggling life’s many demands, this conversation offers guidance, tools, and expansion to help you move forward. You’ll hear personal revelations from Lacy and Jessica about their own inner child programming around control; how it shows up in work, relationships, and even wedding planning. And they offer expansive, grounded advice to two listeners: one manifesting full-time motherhood and another trying to break through a financial glass ceiling while living paycheck to paycheck.

This episode is for anyone working through the TBM Money Challenge, or anyone asking: “Why do I still feel stuck?” Because often, the block isn’t what you think—it’s what you’ve normalized. So tune in for deep permission to slow down, reassess, and come back into alignment with what’s truly authentic for you. The abundance you’re calling in might just require a little less effort—and a little more letting go.

Stay tuned for Part 2 in a few weeks!

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In This Episode We Talk About:

How perfectionism and control are rooted in childhood trauma and old patterning
The connection between love and money
The inner child belief: "If I let go, it will all collapse"
Defining your authentic “why” for abundance
Reframing beauty as spiritual and energetic nourishment
The abundance found in nature and somatic peace
Connecting to sensory environments that regulate and ground
Revisiting authentic code to reflect internal expansion
Navigating motherhood, generational trauma, and money energetics
Breaking consumerist hypnosis to create true financial freedom
Using “the opposite is the medicine” for financial and personal growth

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