True Story London Podcast

22 - Coming Out as Colour Blind w/Ezio de Mauro

Aug 6, 2024
Ezio de Mauro, a captivating storyteller, shares his journey of keeping his colorblindness a secret for thirty years. He discusses the painful childhood experiences of being mocked and the complexities of identity within a traditional Italian family. Ezio highlights the importance of open dialogue about uniqueness and acceptance, emphasizing that differences should be viewed as opportunities for growth. He also reflects on the power of personal storytelling in fostering empathy and inclusivity, encouraging others to embrace their unique narratives.
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ANECDOTE

Ezio's Childhood Colorblind Secret

  • Ezio discovered his color blindness at six when classmates laughed at his color mistakes.
  • He hid the condition for 30 years to avoid shame and stigma.
INSIGHT

How Embracing Colorblindness Transformed My Life and Career

Ezio de Mauro kept his colorblindness secret for over 30 years, fearing it as a "disease" and a source of shame. Despite working as a web developer—a role heavily reliant on color—he coped by relying on creativity, deflection, and exact client instructions for color choices to avoid exposure.

The turning point came when learning his grandfather was also colorblind, giving him closure and acceptance that transformed his view of himself from "diseased" to embracing his uniqueness.

He encourages openly talking about differences and diversity with children to normalize uniqueness and reduce the stigma that held him back for decades.

Ezio also highlights how disclosing his condition at work led to greater empathy and efforts to create more accessible environments, benefiting everyone.

> "If you talk to kids about being different, maybe about being unique rather, talk to them about this at large. But do it like it's 2022. Don't do it like it's 1979 for fuck's sake, please."

ANECDOTE

Avoiding Colorblindness Reveal Game

  • At age 12, Ezio avoided revealing he couldn't read Ishihara plates by diverting a quiz into a group singing activity.
  • This creative strategy helped him hide his color blindness from cousins playing a color vision game.
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