

It's in the Code Ep 135: “Why Do You Always Focus On the Negative?”
Feb 26, 2025
Why is questioning faith often seen as negativity? This discussion dives into the struggles of faith deconstruction in high-control religions, highlighting emotional challenges and personal anecdotes. It explores the tendency to avoid uncomfortable truths, especially in the context of American history and religious narratives. The conversation also addresses the defensive reactions within Christian communities and the repercussions of toxic positivity, linking these dynamics to broader societal issues.
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Discovering Zinn
- Dan Miller read Howard Zinn's A People's History of the United States.
- This book exposed him to darker sides of American history, challenging his worldview.
Pastor's Reaction
- Dan Miller discussed his newfound historical understanding with his pastor.
- His pastor reacted negatively, accusing him of focusing on the negative aspects of history.
Two Responses
- There are two main types of negative responses to faith deconstruction.
- One is a dismissive, toxic positivity from well-intentioned individuals, while the other is a more aggressive, fear-based reaction.