The Truth about Hypergamy: Stop Becoming for Her, Start Becoming for You

Most men misunderstand hypergamy—and it’s killing their self-worth. They think if they level up, she’ll choose them. But being high-value doesn’t guarantee her loyalty, her body, or her love. In this unapologetic episode, we dismantle the lies: why being desirable doesn’t mean being chosen, why effort doesn’t equal reward in dating, and why approval is the real trap. You don’t rise to get picked—you rise so you stop betraying yourself. If you’re tired of chasing women who don’t see your worth, this is your wake-up call. Listen now. This one’s fire. Take Action and Get Results!Join Grounded30 Men's Challenge Learn more about our flagship men's coaching program