#464 Positions, F-ing vs Making Love, and Sexless Marriages - Mashup!

Dec 16, 2025

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Erwan Davon

Guest

Alicia Davon

Join Alicia Davon and Erwan Davon, expert relationship coaches and tantra teachers, as they dive into the nuances of intimacy. They discuss the difference between fucking and making love, highlighting the emotional connection that truly enhances relationships. Discover the reasons behind sexless marriages and practical ways to reignite passion, such as integrating tantra practices. Learn about the importance of presence, communication, and scheduling intimacy to deepen connections and enhance pleasure.

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Schedule Pleasure Intentionally

Schedule sex deliberately to create time and space for connection rather than leaving it to chance.
Treat scheduled sessions as flexible practices, not rigid performances, to reduce pressure and increase consistency.

ADVICE

Prep Thoroughly For Threesomes

Talk with the third person beforehand about likes, dislikes, and boundaries to build safety and reduce overwhelm.
Start slow: remove genitals from the initial scene or use toys, take turns, and allow time-outs as needed.

ANECDOTE

April's Real Threesome Experience

April shared she recently had a threesome that was challenging but ultimately amazing and safe.
She used prior communication and toys to navigate overwhelm and felt empowered by the experience.

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