Intentional Therapist: Putting You In Your Schedule E11: Self-care sabotage: 3 types of beliefs that may be hurting your self-care from the inside out
How often do you take time to reflect on your beliefs and the ways they might be influencing your self-care? If you’re like most female mental health therapists, you’re likely so busy tending to your professional and personal roles and responsibilities that this hasn’t even crossed your mind. Yet, the reality is many of us may be unknowingly buying into beliefs that could be sabotaging our self-care.
In today’s episode we look at three types of unhelpful beliefs and the ways they might be sabotaging your self-care efforts. We're also talking about how connection, compassion, and courage can provide powerful antidotes to these unhelpful beliefs. So if you are ready to stop “shoulding” on yourself, please tune in!
Episode Highlights:
- Three types of beliefs that can sabotage our self-care
- Therapist "musturbations"
- "Shoulding" on our self-care
- "Canning" our self-care
Self-Care Experiments:
- Be an objective observer
- Connect with others
- Challenge your unhelpful beliefs
Resources Mentioned:
- Book: Leaving It at the Office by Drs. John Norcross and Gary VandenBos
- Visit our website to get your own copy of our FREE 4 C's Self-Care Assessment: https://www.intentionaltherapist.ca
Connect with Melissa & Karen at Intentional Therapist:
intentional@intentionaltherapist.ca
https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmelissatiessen/
Share one of your own self-care experiments via our SpeakPipe page at: https://www.speakpipe.com/intentionaltherapist
Disclaimer: This podcast seeks to be educational in purpose and is not to be used as clinical advice. Please connect with a therapist one-on-one for personalized support.