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Forcing Kids To Do Hard Things: Raising Resilient Kids Who Can Tolerate Frustration

May 13, 2024

Exploring the balance of pushing kids to do hard things, the fine line between encouraging potential and pushing past limits. Discussing resilience, self-doubt, and nurturing persistence in children. Navigating complexities in parenting, emphasizing self-awareness and guiding with belief in capabilities.

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Quick takeaways

Encouraging children to persevere through challenges must be balanced with emotional support for their well-being.

Parents play a vital role in fostering resilience by sharing personal stories and creating a supportive learning environment.

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Importance of Pushing Children to Do Hard Things

Pushing children to do hard things and overcome challenges is a topic of discussion. The episode delves into when and to what extent it is acceptable to push children to engage in challenging tasks even when they resist or struggle. The hosts share their experiences with their oldest daughter facing difficulties in learning karate and swimming. They debate the balance between pushing children to reach their potential while ensuring they feel supported and safe throughout the process.

Introduction

2min

Balancing Pushing and Empathy in Parenting

19min

Overcoming Self-Doubt and Pursuing Passion with Support

2min

Nurturing Resilience and Persistence in Children

6min

Navigating the Complexities of Parenting

2min

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jess and Scott dive into the complex topic of pushing kids to do hard things. They explore the fine line between encouraging children to reach their potential vs. pushing them past their limits. Jess vulnerably shares how her own painful childhood experiences make it challenging for her to watch her daughter being pushed.

Together, they unpack the key ingredients kids need to build true resilience. This honest, nuanced conversation will make you reflect deeply on how your own past shapes your parenting and what really matters when helping kids tolerate frustration. If you’ve ever struggled to find the right balance with your child, this episode is for you.

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Credits:

Editing by The Pod Cabin

Artwork by Wallflower Studio

Production by Nurtured First

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